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Friday, July 13, 2012

400-408 – • Yahoo News (7/13/2012) Man Celebrates 65th Birthday by Giving Away Free Money.

Robert Epstein, (drrobertepstein.com), is a research scientist and former editor-in-chief of Psychology Today, author of 15 books including his latest Teen 2.0:  Saving Our Children and Families from the Torment of Adolescence (teen20.com; other sites include:  HowAdultAreYou.com, MyParentingSkills.com, ExtendedChildhoodDisorder.com, HowInfantilizedAreYou.com).  He's finishing his new e-book Finding the Inner Adult in Your Teen: A Guide for Parents (teenrepairkit.com).  He's also the father of six.  He debunks two big myths: the myth of adolescence, and the myth of the defective teen brain.

• NEW! After 7 years in development, AreWeGoodTogether.com — the ultimate test of romantic compatibility—is available in beta format. Have you found your perfect love? Do you and someone you just met have what it takes to live happily ever after, or are you headed toward disaster?  Do you know your "must have's" and "must not have's?"  There's another relationship skills test online at myrelationshipskills.com.  

• My Summary – Epstein argues that if "teenagerhood" was a universal malady, it would be universally acknowledged much like toddlerhood – everywhere and always, a 2 year old has been a 2 year old.  But the very fact other cultures do not dismiss teenagers as morally or intellectually inferior mitigates against the claim of an inferior teenage brain that's bubbling in hormones.  In fact, over 100 cultures around the world don't have any adolescent trauma, and many don't even have a word for "teenager."  It's just not a reality to them.  If he's right, and I believe he is since the research proves it, then we need to totally rethink how we raise our kids.  This is a Kuhnian paradigm shift, a scientific revolution.  There is no such thing as "the teen brain," yet there is the ubiquitous acceptance of the "myth of adolescence."

• According to the most recent National Comorbidity Survey, 49.5% of all American teens are diagnosable with at least one behavioral, emotional, or substance abuse disorder.  And, they get worse as time goes on, i.e., 18-year-olds score worse than 13-year-olds.

He just finished teaching a doctoral course on love in downtown LA for the Chicago School of Professional Psychology.  For the past 10 years, he's been researching love in arranged marriages.  He's learned, we don't "fall" in love, we "rise" in love.  It's not something that happens to us (something we're passive about), it's something we do (we're active).  He says he knows some of the skills to help even total strangers enter into a loving relationship – he's been researching arranged marriages for the past decade.  Two examples, "soul gazing" (in which you stare into each other's eyes for two minutes), and "secret swapping" (in which you disclose personal things to each other).  He says he knows why arranged marriages have worked for millennia, and still do, and why our Western model of "falling into love" – actually lust – is so deeply tragic. 

413-423 – Robert Epstein,

428-438 – Robert Epstein,

443-452 – Robert Epstein,

458-508 – Robert Epstein, & Calls – What are the most common areas of relationship conflict?  What are things in your relationship you're concerned about?  

• After 7 years in development, AreWeGoodTogether.com — the ultimate test of romantic compatibility—is available in beta format. Have you found your perfect love? Do you and someone you just met have what it takes to live happily ever after, or are you headed toward disaster?  Do you know your "must have's" and "must not have's?"  There's another relationship skills test online at myrelationshipskills.com

512-523 – Robert Epstein & Calls – What's the relationship between lust and arranged marriage?  Most people think arranged marriages work because the guy has a mistress – is that true?  Anna calls and says her arranged marriage is working after two years.

528-539 – Robert Epstein & Calls –  Another caller says her arranged marriage is still together, but is not working that well.

544-554 – Robert Epstein & Calls – What would you tell high school seniors about marriage?

558-608 – KKLA CARES – Many times "you have not, because you ask not,"  – So, bouncing off of James 4:3, "You ask and do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, so that you may spend it on your pleasures" –   if you need something other than money, something pretty specific, a service or an item, let us know and we'll see if we can help.  Send us an email at producerjj@kkla.com.

Lesley Glenn is with Dandelion Wishes (dandelion-wishes.org), a ministry that uses therapeutic art to effect hope, healing and restoration to young girls in places like the detention center in San Bernardino, the Cedar House rehabilitation hospital in Bloomington, the Corona Women's Prison, and the Dream Center.  You can watch a YouTube video here.  She needs art supplies, paints, glue, watercolors, markers, sharpies, canvas's, etc.  Email her at dndlnwishes@gmail.com or call her at (951) 415-4242.

Pastor Derric at Basic LA Church (basiclachurch@yahoo.com, (213) 537-8722 needs Audio/Visual equipment to record their services, and they need help with getting a website up.

612-623 – Anthony Morelli, shares a praise report – the oldest church in Monrovia needed some screen-printing equipment to support their mentoring and discipleship program, and they got it!

Dave Roekle and his wife Lucy are both on Social Security and have a limited income, she has Multiple Sclerosis (MS), and they need a "wheelchair van" with a ramp so she can drive her electric wheelchair up into the van and park it on the passenger side, allowing them to get out of the house together, and to visit their four grandchildren. (951-278-2370, or droekle@sbcglobal.net).

Lily – Would like a scholarship to a Christian school for her four year old son in the Garden Grove area, 562-716-0413.

628-639 – Mark in Pomona needs a storage property to restore antique big rigs.  Needs space in Rialto.  35-28.  909 680 5057.

Joyce in Cerritos needs a website designer for Gospel for Asia.  562 313 3554.

Frank in Diamond Bar needs a drum set for a ministry on skid row.  323 420 6197.

Paula Cunningham (818-306-7423, sevenme@live.com) is calling for her daughter, Tresa, who's a single mom with twin girls, Paula and Keegan.  Paula has maxed out her credit cards, and has worked two jobs to support them, but now her knees are failing, and she's just not able to continue.  The girls are A students, and Paula is asking for a running car so Tresa can get to work and take them to school.

Mike in Simi Valley needs a car for his son to get to and from work and school.

644-656 – Yvonne in Pasadena needs a Christian bi-racial mentor for her daughter. 

Karen in Whittier needs volunteers for her horse ranch ministry, www.risinghoperanch.org  562 449 7711.

Diane needs tires for her car and a home for her dog.  Ford Ranger, 818 284 8661.  

D'Lynne Prizzi is calling for her friend Karen Iniguez.  Karen is a single mom of two and been the caregiver for her aging parents.  But, in the past three years, she's lost her job as an art teacher, she's lost her house, her mother's died, and her kids – in their early 20s – have been forced to live with friends.  Karen gave her car to her son so he can work, and now she needs a job, a car, and a place to live.  To help, call 909-623-7044, or email D'Lynee at prizzi_d@yahoo.com.